THE ALTAR BOYS WHO GREW UP TOGETHER — AND TRIED TO KEEP EUROPE’S CENTER FROM
CRUMBING
The lives of Daniel Caspary and René Repasi often overlapped as they grew up. In
the European Parliament, they became political rivals — but were also united in
common cause.
By MAX GRIERA and NETTE NÖSTLINGER
in Stutensee, Germany
Photo-illustrations by Klawe Rzeczy for POLITICO
Sometimes it’s the least extraordinary places that throw up the most startling
of coincidences.
In this case, a tiny German town — nothing special: a stone’s throw from the
Rhine river, a small 18th century castle, the kind of suburban sleepiness where
boys like Daniel Caspary and René Repasi while away their teenage years cycling
to the city to party or the nearest lake to cool off — has produced rival
leading European politicians who have been key to assuring EU political
stability in a time of unprecedented fragmentation.
The way their lives have intertwined is astonishing. Caspary, now 49, and
Repasi, three years his junior, went to the same school. There, they both
organized a cabaret of political satire. They honed their skills on the student
newspaper. They were both altar boys in the same church. And they both scored
their first political victories on their town’s council. Almost since birth,
their lives have taken staggeringly parallel paths. Now, they’re on different
sides in the European Parliament.
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Caspary is leader in the Parliament of the center-right Christian Democratic
Union (CDU) and its Bavarian sister party, the Christian Social Union (CSU), the
largest faction in the European People’s Party. Repasi is the equivalent for the
center-left Social Democratic Party (SPD), the third-largest national delegation
in the Socialists and Democrats group. The EPP and the S&D are the two biggest
Parliament groups and for decades have between them held a grip on EU power.
Despite the rivalry between their umbrella political families, with antagonism
only worsening since the 2024 EU elections, the two men have cemented their
reputation as the backchannels between the two sides, attempting to safeguard
what in EU circles is known as the “grand coalition” between center right and
center left.
That’s significant because the Parliament is fractured like never before. Aping
a trend seen across western democracies, the middle ground is crumbling.
Politicians like Caspary and Repasi represent the old ways of doing things ―
political opponents, yes, but ready to put aside their differences so their two
sides can work together to face down the extremes. Increasingly, that’s no
longer a given in the European Parliament. That was evident when the EPP,
earlier this month, abandoned its traditional centrist allies and pressed ahead
with the support of far-right groups to approve cuts to green rules.
Daniel Caspary, the charismatic old-school conservative deeply rooted in his
community, in his class photo from the year he graduated. | Stutensee’s Thomas
Mann-Gymnasium 1993-1994 annuary
René Repasi, the cosmopolitan and slick social democrat with an impressive track
record in academia, in his class photo from the year before he graduated. |
Stutensee’s Thomas Mann-Gymnasium 1993-1994 annuary
A good relationship between the pair has been particularly useful because the
leaders of the two pan-European groups rarely conceal their mutual dislike and
are increasingly finding it tough to reach compromise positions on new laws,
such as on green rules for business or on controlling migration.
“Of course we have many differences politically, but it’s good if you can talk,”
Caspary told POLITICO. “We’ve known each other for ages … We know that we can
trust each other.”
“He was always a sort of leading figure,” Repasi said, remembering their shared
childhoods in Stutensee. I “looked up to him.”
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While their paths overlapped, they could barely be more different personally and
politically. Caspary is the charismatic old-school conservative deeply rooted in
his community, pressing the flesh at local events and using the language of the
person in the street. He still lives in the area. Repasi, by contrast, is the
cosmopolitan ― the slick social democrat with an impressive track record in
academia, a man of scholarly rhetoric who moved away from Germany completely.
“What Repasi lacks,” said Mathias Zurawski, a journalist who attended the same
school, “Caspary offers. And vice versa.”
ALTAR BOYS
Stutensee’s discreet Catholic St. Josef Church is in the town’s backstreets. The
garden surrounding it boasts abundant fruit trees. Posters advertise meetings of
the scout group. It’s humble in comparison to the more spectacular Protestant
church on the main street. It’s here where the Caspary and Repasi families
worshipped. And it’s where the two boys built trust in each other.
“We met for the first time in the youth groups of the Catholic church,” Caspary
said. “We talked about this. I think this stands for some values. We always try
to be honest.”
Those early religious experiences play a big role in Caspary’s life today, said
Ansgar Mayr, a regional CDU politician who has known him since he made his first
steps in politics.
Stutensee’s St Josef Catholic Church, where Caspary and Repasi used to serve as
altar boys. | Max Griera/POLITICO
“He was greatly influenced by his time in the Catholic Church and also his time
with the Scouts, who are Catholic Scouts,” Mayr said. “His circle of friends,
outside the political bubble, comes very much from the Catholic Church and
parish youth groups.”
The pair served as altar boys, assisting the priest at Mass and kneeling as part
of the liturgy. On Christmas, they sang carols around town.
The Social Democrat Repasi’s Catholicism has lapsed somewhat, but despite being
“one of those guys who go to church only at Christmas,” he said Christian values
serve as guidance for his daily life and political career.
CHAOS AND REVOLUTION
The pair’s paths crossed again as teenagers in high school. The Thomas-Mann
Gymnasium is just a stone’s throw from the church. It’s seen better days and is
due to be renovated next year. For now, it still looks as it did in the 1990s.
It’s easy to imagine Caspary and Repasi here. The lockers they’d have used line
the corridors and the classrooms are plain, aside from the vintage orange
cubical washbasins.
In those years, they both dived into extracurricular activities. Caspary founded
an annual political cabaret show. At 18, he handed the organizing baton to
Repasi, who suddenly found himself facing the daunting task, he said, of raising
money to cover costs.
“If the whole thing was a success, [that] was due to the fact that he [Caspary]
handed it over, and we did the transition period together,” said Repasi.
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The boys’ school yearbooks portray two kids destined for greater things.
Alongside a photo of Caspary humorously dressed as a medic, his classmates
described him as “source of the most creative interjections (‘yes, but…’) that
elicit a wide range of reactions from teachers, ranging from amusement to
annoyance.” It’s “hard to believe,” the entry said, “that this chaotic person
will one day take on a leading role as a conservative politician.”
Repasi’s friends saw him as a revolutionary. His portrait shows him wearing a
Soviet hat. “Discussions with him often turn into fights,” his schoolmates said.
“But no one else is as good at arguing objectively.”
The boys also bumped into each other on the school’s newspaper, Pepperoni.
Caspary was already acting as a sporadic school reporter, when Repasi — a couple
of years later — became editor in chief. The boys weren’t scared of hitting the
establishment where it hurt. Pepperoni signified “something that stings” so was
“a means to express criticism,” said former teacher Sabine Graf, who taught
French and German at the school at the time.
Yearbook of Daniel Caspary, featuring a photo of Thomas Mann blended with Albert
Einstein’s famous tongue picture, symbolizing science. | 50 years anniversary
book, Thomas Mann Gymnasium 1974-2024
Covers of the Pepperoni school magazine, which both Caspary and Repasi
contributed to. | 50 years anniversary book, Thomas Mann Gymnasium 1974-2024
Yearbook of René Repasi, featuring a pig with a black flag, symbolizing social
class revolution and anarchism. | 50 years anniversary book, Thomas Mann
Gymnasium 1974-2024
Those shared experiences form the basis of the two men’s relationship in the
Parliament today.
“You can always say you can trust me,” Repasi said. “But actually you can only
do so if you have experienced it. And I experienced it in my past that I can
trust him and that I can rely on him.”
VOTERS’ CRITICISM
These days, Stutensee isn’t immune to the political winds that blow across the
whole of Europe. With populism, of right and left, on the rise, centrist
politicians who broadly prefer to focus on points of agreement rather than
division aren’t in vogue.
The Alternative for Germany (AfD) came in second in Germany’s national election
earlier this year ― the best showing for a far-right party since the Nazi rise
to power. The AfD isn’t represented on the city council here, but locals
acknowledge there’s a desire to kick the establishment. An establishment
symbolized by men like Caspary and Repasi.
Despite their deep roots in the town, many reject the idea they’re local heroes.
“They show up at some celebratory events around town with their family a couple
of times a year, but you don’t hear from them afterwards,” said a 37-year-old
bartender at the smoke-filled bar in town, who gives his name only as Dominik. A
handful of people at the bar hear his remarks and nod.
Dominik also went to Thomas-Mann Gymnasium. He knew Caspary’s brother. But he
insisted neither politician can be trusted. They’re not “looking out for the
interests of the people,” he said.
But early on in their careers, the two politicians made some tangible changes
for locals. When they were both on their school’s student council, Caspary
campaigned for a night bus line between Stutensee and the city of Karlsruhe,
10km away. In some ways, he succeeded, advancing a cause that led to the
construction of a durable tram connection built years later.
“During this campaign, I realized that if you start engaging with the town
representatives, like the mayor, like the city council members, then you can
change things,” Caspary said.
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Repasi’s political awakening came when the regional government tried to cut by a
year the time that students attended high school to align practices with other
European countries. The school’s leadership wanted to participate in the pilot,
despite most students being opposed.
“I found it total nonsense,” Repasi said. “I was mobilizing the school kids to
come to this meeting of the municipal council, and I think for the first time
ever it was totally full.”
The students cheered loudly when their arguments, compiled by Repasi, were
presented to the mayor. The council ultimately rejected the plan. If the bus
line was Caspary’s first political victory, this was Repasi’s.
MR. STUTENSEE VS. MR. EUROPE
Eventually, they drifted apart.
These days, Caspary’s image is one of a politician still deeply rooted to his
home, who found his way to Brussels by chance. People close to him describe him
as a family man, raising his five children just a few kilometers from where he
grew up.
Repasi, in contrast, is seen as a professor-turned-politician, someone with a
strong passion for European affairs who deliberately chose to build his life
abroad.
Classroom of Thomas Mann Gymnasium, intact since Caspary and Repasi studied in
it. | Max Griera/POLITICO
For Repasi, who was raised by a German mother and Hungarian father,
“cosmopolitanism runs through his life,” said Graf, the schoolteacher. She and
another former teacher both recalled his in-depth study on the Yugoslav Wars. He
became a professor of European law in Geneva and Rotterdam, where he raised two
sons with his Polish wife.
Caspary was elected to the European Parliament almost by accident in 2004, at
28, because of the CDU’s exceptionally strong showing.
“My plan was to become the chairperson of the group in my city council,” he
said.
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For Repasi, on the other hand, ending up working in an EU institution was his
dream, according to colleagues. He even dabbled with joining Caspary in the CDU.
But in his village, the party didn’t feel very welcoming, he said. “I’m
Western-looking enough not to have any discrimination experiences like Turkish
people, but my strange family name was strange enough in my village,” he said.
Repasi’s road to the Parliament was bumpier than Caspary’s. He ran in three
elections but never made it, ultimately joining when another SPD member gave up
her mandate in 2022.
TOGETHER IN BRUSSELS ― AND THEN APART AGAIN
Reuniting in the European Parliament was almost like a homecoming for Repasi.
Caspary presented him with a basket of delicacies from the region around
Stutensee.
Repasi’s rise since then has been rapid. He became the head of the SPD faction
in the S&D only two years after his arrival. And in that time, they’ve put their
friendship to good use.
Cordial catchups soon turned into high-level political negotiations. They were
suddenly in charge of leading the biggest German parties in the Parliament and
had to overcome the increasing estrangement between their group leaders, Manfred
Weber, the head of the EPP group, and Iratxe García, the S&D chair.
Caspary was elected to the European Parliament almost by accident in 2004
because of the CDU’s exceptionally strong showing. | Michael Kappeler/picture
alliance via Getty Images
For Repasi, ending up working in an EU institution was his dream. | Marijan
Murat/picture alliance via Getty Images
That’s why they have been in constant dialogue, “to bring together political
lines,” Caspary said.
“We do speak about conflicts that are arising,” Repasi said. “Whether we can
totally solve them is a different question.”
Other MEPs say the good relationship between the German conservatives and
Socialists has proved critical.
“The stability of the mandate” ― European Commission President Ursula von der
Leyen’s loose coalition of centrist parties ― “is at stake, and what can help
cement a stronger cooperation is the link between the CDU and SPD,” said Javi
López, a Spanish S&D lawmaker and Parliament vice-president.
But nothing lasts forever and the double act is about to split once more. In
October, the German government nominated Caspary to be its representative at the
European Court of Auditors, in Luxembourg.
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On Thursday he is expected to be confirmed by the Parliament. That will leave a
gap, according to his colleagues.
“Over the years, he has been a steady and unifying presence, bringing together a
team of highly diverse personalities,” said Niclas Herbst, chair of the
Parliament budgetary control committee, and one of the names floated to succeed
Caspary. “He is, in the best sense, a true generalist — someone who can swiftly
and thoroughly grasp complex political issues … I know there is great
anticipation in Luxembourg for his arrival.”
When Caspary departs, Repasi will have to find himself another opposite number
to build up a trusting relationship. But it remains to be seen whether the
fraying ties between center right and center left can retain at least one strong
thread.
While that won’t be impossible, it certainly won’t come as easy as a
relationship forged in little Stutensee. Out of experiences in church, student
politics and the school newspaper, the foundations held up well.
Tag - Transition/implementation period
LONDON — Keir Starmer will welcome German Chancellor Friedrich Merz to London
Thursday to sign the biggest U.K.-German treaty since 1945 — and this time, they
do want to mention the war.
Despite sitting on different sides of the political spectrum, the two men have
more in common than initially meets the eye. Crucially, center-left Prime
Minister Starmer and conservative Merz have a shared ambition to provide
leadership on Europe’s defense.
The two leaders will use the visit to finalize a wide-ranging pact that goes big
on security cooperation. It will include promises to develop a new long-range
missile system and a mutual assistance pledge, spelling out that a threat to one
country would likely be seen as a threat to the other, as first reported by
POLITICO. Merz’s trip has gained fresh impetus after U.S. President Donald
Trump’s announcement this week that he is ready to turbo-charge the supply of
weapons to Ukraine.
London and Berlin are expected to confirm collaboration on quantum technology,
artificial intelligence and other longer-term projects too, including offshore
energy links in the North Sea and a rail connection between Germany and the U.K.
Yet warm words will likely gloss over some of the more fundamental challenges
both leaders face.
Starmer will be eager to shout about measures to crack down on illegal migration
— but it’s unclear how far any steps announced Thursday will take either side
towards easing the huge domestic pressure they face on the issue.
BROTHERS IN ARMS
A lawyer in his 60s who ascended to Germany’s top job with relatively little
political experience, Merz has a fair few things in common with his British
counterpart.
The pair have both faced sharp demands to cut immigration since they entered
office, from which they’ve sought some respite on the global stage. Both have
produced unexpected gambits to massively boost defense spending as the U.S.
pivots away from Europe.
While Starmer has endeavored to match the previous U.K. government’s strong
backing for Ukraine, Merz is seen as more hawkish than his predecessor Olaf
Scholz, bringing the UK and Germany into closer alignment.
A German government official, granted anonymity to speak candidly like others in
this piece, described the relationship between them as “excellent.”
They added that Merz was impressed by Starmer’s ability to “express himself very
precisely,” particularly when dealing with Trump.
Starmer’s administration has courted Berlin assiduously, pledging to strike a
defense agreement with Germany before taking office last year and seeking to
rebuild relations with the EU.
Nick Hopkinson, a former director of Wilton Park, the Foreign Office’s agency
for fostering German-British relations, said: “The key thing for Germany is that
now that U.K.-EU relations have been reset, that opens up avenues for closer
cooperation.”
The two men have met multiple times in recent weeks, at international summits
and on a train to Kyiv with France’s Emmanuel Macron in May. A Chancellory
insider said Merz was particularly keen for Starmer to be involved in that trip.
TRIPLE THREAT
The German leader’s visit to London cements the third side of a European
“triangle alliance” after Macron’s State Visit last week, as the three powers
try to shore up support for Vlodomyr Zelenskyy.
A British minister said the three-way coalition was of increasing importance,
and that Germany’s forced step back during the transition period between Scholz
and Merz had “definitely been felt” in London.
On that trip to Kyiv with Macron, Starmer and Merz sat at opposite ends of the
train. As Starmer walked through the train, he declared: “If you want to get to
Germany, you have to get past France.”
The comment appeared to be a reference to France’s somewhat more guarded stance
on U.K. participation in EU matters since Brexit.
Nicolai von Ondarza of the German Institute for International and Security
Affairs (SWP) think tank said: “Merz has put special emphasis on integrating the
U.K. into European security initiatives, and there is a real ambition to
coordinate on defense.”
Building on the Trinity House Agreement signed last year, the leaders are set to
announce joint export campaigns for jointly produced equipment, while working
together on a new missile system with a range of over 2,000 km to be delivered
in the next decade.
Merz’s arrival in London also provides a chance to discuss Trump’s new drive to
send American weapons to Ukraine. A British diplomat said they were extremely
pleased with the outcome following intensive discussions with France, Germany
and NATO that predated last month’s summit at The Hague.
They said “anything that gets more U.S. weaponry into Ukraine faster is good
news,” confirming the U.K.’s support for the plan, in common with Germany, but
in contrast to France, which was not on an early list of backers.
Merz and Starmer will be able to pore over the nitty-gritty, such as who pays
for what and in which framework, along with more specific details like whether
Europeans will buy U.S. weapons to be delivered to the battlefield, or whether
they will give Ukraine weapons from existing stockpiles and buy replacements
from the U.S.
LIMITED MOVEMENT
While the two countries are keen to trumpet their shared goals on defense, other
parts of the relationship will be trickier to navigate.
Starmer is keen to discuss efforts to tackle illegal migration whenever he meets
foreign leaders — as he did when Emmanuel Macron was in town last week — but
joint endeavors in this area could prove limited.
The U.K. wants Germany to ramp up prosecution of smuggling gangs on its turf,
although the substance of that plan was already agreed between the two interior
ministries last year. Downing Street stressed the necessary changes to German
law would now be made by the end of the year.
Von Ondorza said that while Merz was more open than Scholz to making migration
“a central pillar” of their interactions, it was “less clear” what Britain and
Germany could do to help each other on this front compared with France.
Then there is the vexed topic of movement between the two countries. Starmer and
Merz are expected to confirm changes which will make it easier for German
schoolchildren to visit the U.K.
A second German official said it was “a tangible result” from bilateral
discussions on mobility, while the bigger prize of an EU-wide agreement on
students coming to Britain — something Berlin is pushing hard for — is still
distant.
Meanwhile, German officials have warned it will still be “some time” before all
British passengers are allowed to use e-gates when entering the country —
something Starmer hailed as a win from the recent EU-U.K. “reset” agreement.
Frequent travelers to Germany are set to gain access to e-gates as an interim
step, however.
For now, visits between Berlin and London remain a little easier for Merz and
Starmer than for the citizens of the countries they lead.
Sam Blewett and Jon Stone contributed reporting.